Children's Voice

The way your mediation enquiry will be handled has changed. OFM office staff will no longer take new referrals, which should now be sent directly to the mediators listed below.

OFM will continue to work with all existing clients through our office in Witney until June.

Oxfordshire Family Mediation is a charity that will soon cease to operate. However, its team of experienced mediators will continue to provide family mediation on an independent basis. The mediators can be contacted directly to discuss and make arrangements for mediation with you.

For enquiries, please contact:

For Oxford- Kerry Williamson, Mediator and Professional Practice Consultant

Tel: 07532 308046

Roger Cullen, Family Mediator

Tel: 07854 279638

For Banbury and Bicester- Jenny Harris, Family Mediator

Tel: 07773 749998

For Witney & Kidlington Jane Hedges, Family Mediator

Tel: 07557 112163

For Didcot Berkshire Family Mediation

Tel: 01189 571159

Mediation is a very important part of reducing conflict during divorce and separation and in helping those affected to reach fair solutions. If you think you may be eligible for Legal Aid, please let the mediator know when you make contact to find out about your options.

We will do all we can to ensure that you will continue to be satisfied with the mediation service we provide during this transition period.

If you are already part of an ‘open file’ and have any concerns please feel free to email or call on 08448476658 or 01993 708 546.

Our Children’s Voice service is to continue for now and so we still welcome applications and referrals.

Local Family Mediators can also be found at or via National Family Mediation on

Children’s Voice
putting children at the centre, not in the middle 

Our Children’s Voice service is designed to give children and young people aged 6-18 a safe space in which to explore their feelings surrounding their parents’ separation or divorce. 

Grounded in an inclusive and holistic approach to families, which puts children at the center and not in the middle, OFM first connects with parents by offering an introductory meeting to the service (separately if required), which is an opportunity to cover any concerns relating to their child/ren and consider advice and support for the whole family where possible.

We see parents first to ensure that the service is right for the young person . The meetings cost £35. If appropriate we are then able to offer up to four sessions at a nominal charge of £10 per session, for children with a specialist Support Worker, where they can talk about their feelings and any changes within their family – such as the addition of new step-parents, difficulties with divided parental contact, or struggles with school as a result of their situation at home.

Our Support Workers employ creative and therapeutic techniques to encourage children to use the space as they wish, and to development positive coping mechanisms going forward. This can include art, sand play, puppet work, therapeutic story telling, calm down kits, breathing exercises and more. All activities are tailored to each individual client, based on their age, likes, interests and specific concerns.

We offer sessions at locations across Oxfordshire and can see children during or after school hours.


To refer a child, please complete our Children’s Voice referral form. For more information about the service, click here.

If you are over 16 and would like to self-refer, you do not need to have your parents' consent or involvement in the service, however, we recommend that you let them know about it. For more information, feel free to call us on 0844 847 6658, email us, or check out our FAQs page. You might also find our website designed for young people, by young people helpful to look at.

For more information, please feel free to email OFM or call us on 0844 847 6658. Ideally, all referral forms should be completed using a computer and returned to us via email. Alternatively, you may wish to complete a referral form by hand and post it to:

Children and Young People’s Services
Oxfordshire Family Mediation
Administrative Offices
Unit 12, Spinners Court
55 West End
OX28 1NH

Children's Voice Feedback

Children’s Voice continues to receive excellent feedback from those who have accessed the service:

"I found it helpful having an independent person to talk to with no family connections" (anonymous Children's Voice client)

 “I was able to talk about things I wouldn’t usually be comfortable talking about” (anonymous Children's Voice client)

We have also received 100% positive feedback to date from the parents who have connected with Children's Voice:

“From the first phone call, I felt supported by the service” (Parent of a Children’s Voice client)

“Thank you for the access to Children's Voice - it is an amazing service that you provide. I am so grateful that my daughter was able to open up and talk in a safe environment and use the strategies to deal with her anger and put things in perspective for herself. I would not have been able to afford this service on my own - so thank you.” (Parent of a Children’s Voice client)

Important Information

OFM’s inclusive and holistic approach to families puts young people at the center, not in the middle. For young people under the age of 16, we must receive consent from both parents before their child can access the service.

In exceptional circumstances, we may be able to offer the service with the consent and involvement of only one parent. For more information about parental consent and participation in the service, please visit our FAQs page or contact OFM on 0844 847 6658 or via email.

Please note - all sessions are treated confidentially, except in the event that safeguarding issues arise.

Children's Voice Merchandise

OFM offer pens and tote bags for previous clients and others who would like to show their support for our services. 

OFM Children's Voice Tote Bag

Luxury tote bag featuring winning art work from the Children's Voice Drawing Competition 2015 - priced at £8.99.
To purchase, send us your name and address and state the item and quantity you wish to order.

OFM Children's Voice Pen

High quality pen featuring OFM's 'putting children at the centre, not in the middle' Children's Voice tagline - priced at £3.99.
To purchase, send us your name and address and state the item and quantity you wish to order. 


Why not watch the BBC Children in Need video below to hear about Alice's experience of accessing Children's Voice following her parents' divorce...