Mediators remain impartial in mediation. They cannot give legal advice to either person, although they are well informed about how the law works and they can provide useful legal information during mediation sessions.

You can seek advice from a solicitor at any point, and people tend to do this at the start of mediation; once all the financial information has been disclosed; or once proposals have been put forward. This helps you to be fully informed about your position and can sometimes help people to be more realistic during mediation negotiations. 

People are understandably anxious about the cost of paying for legal advice as well as mediation. Statistically however, costs for those who use mediation with legal advice alongside are less than half the costs of dealing with matters through solicitors alone. (Source: National Audit Office).

Remember, some solicitors offer free initial consultations (FI) or fixed fee packages (FF). Otherwise, their charges for advising or assisting you are calculated according to an hourly charging rate, plus VAT.

People who are eligible for Legal Aid and who are actively seeking financial solutions in mediation are entitled to a limited amount of free legal advice to support the mediation process, from solicitors who can offer Legal Aid (LA). This is called Help with Family Mediation (HM).

If you’re unable to mediate, Collaborative Law (CL) may be something to consider. A solicitor who offers collaborative law would sit with you, your ex-partner and their solicitor to try to resolve matters. There are various protocols to ensure this is used for the purpose of reaching agreement.

Solicitors who can support your work in mediation

OfferingFirmLocation
FIAplinsBanbury
FF
CL
Blake Morgan LLP  Oxford
HM
LA
FF
Boardman Hawkins & Osborne LLP (BH&O LLP) Abingdon
FFFamily First SolicitorsWoodstock Road, Oxford
FI (30 min)
FF
CL
Freeths LLPOxford Business Park, OX4 2BH
FFHMG Law LLPBicester & Oxford
FIJohn Welch and StammersWitney
FI
FF
CL
Lightfoots LLP  Thame
FI (phone)
FF
Orange Tree SolicitorsCowley, Oxford
CLPenningtonsOxford Business Park, OX4 2HN
FI
FF
CL
Royds Withy KingOxford & Thame  
FFSlade LegalWallingford, Abingdon, Didcot
FI (options only),
FF
Spratt EndicottBanbury & Bicester
Stacey and Mason LLPWitney